You don’t know me. It doesn’t matter, I am who I am. It doesn’t change that however it might change you if you listen to what I have to say. You don’t have to agree however you may find your story inside of what I have to say.
Do you wonder what your purpose is or what is the purpose? Really struggle with the conformity and the domestication of women? Your domestication? Do you see it in others but to yourself say, not me! Are you aware of how we got to where we are? Why it might feel like some things have not changed? Then question why we have not stopped this? Did you one day wake up and look around and only to see people that have huge expectations of you? They may have moved on to someone else because you were so tired that you had no more to give? Did you push to give even when it meant exhaustion for yourself? Could you not see, any other way out?
Do you know where you belong? Do you feel you should belong somewhere? Where? Do you have questions that you are afraid to ask?
I have stories I want to share. Stories that may make you want to rethink what you are putting your precious energy towards? These are not meant to point out who is wrong however to show how mindlessly we accept what is occurring in the moment. The moment that could be different if we take notice rather than check out or choose to stay silent.
Many of us have been silenced as young girls, taught to be nice and not have too much fire. To take care of everyone. Selfish if we happen to put ourselves first. Someone else told us what boundaries we could have or not have. We begin to shut down early and continue this as a pattern of no choice. We take direction from the fashion and beauty industry as to who we are and what is acceptable. Slowly we shrink into the dark corner of our psyche and wait. Wait. Wait for someone to see you.
I have worked with individuals and groups, whether it was in the moment or a scheduled session. Why? I believe in RECLAIMING what is yours, in the moment. I am not talking about a thing, like an object. That too can have ramifications. I am talking about something that you may not see but you feel it. You feel it because it goes deep in your physic. It sits waiting to creep in and nag at you. It waits for the silence, the noise to stop, when you are alone. It wants to be heard. It may come as a whisper. You may not recognize it in the moment. You have been conditioned to fear it.
Our world is changing and women are also seeing what has been hidden from us. We are now beginning to understand our needing to be accepted, to belong comes with a big price. We have been hiding our Feminine Power for generations. It might have been a way to keep us safe for a while however now it has us trapped, victims.
We have been so domesticated that we are numb, we accept things as if they are for our best interest. Mentally checking out, finding ways to sedate ourselves and telling ourselves that there is nothing we can do. We don’t even know how to be honest with ourselves, let alone be honest with another woman.
It is time to wake up. It is time to listen. I wish to see you in ALL YOUR MAGIC and GLORY, for that is the only way I will know who you are.